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The Beginning of a Reawakening
There’s a moment in every woman’s life when she realizes the chase is exhausting. Not the chase for goals or growth — but the chase for beauty. For years, I ran after it. Products, routines, promises in little glass bottles. Anything that I could get my hands on - if a transformation was offered, I was in. What I quickly realized is that what those external fixes really delivered was another layer of distance from myself. Somewhere along the way, I began to wonder: What if be
Alejandra
Nov 112 min read


Sydney Sweeny and the Power (and Performance) of the Female Form
What Sydney Sweeney’s gown at Variety’s Power of Women event reveals — about art, femininity, and our ongoing confusion between sensuality and performance. Woooo eeee! Sydney Sweeney — the pint-sized bombshell who’s got heads rolling off shoulders and tongues waggin’. Let’s break this down. First, the art. Because I’ll always be drawn to beauty found in art before anything else. The dress — that dress — is simply gorgeous. It debuted at the Christian Cowan Spring/Summer 2026
Alejandra
Nov 33 min read


You're Not Bored, You're Boring...
The PHx take on boredom You’re Not Bored — You’re Boring. (A PHx Take on Boredom and the Art of Purposeful Nothingness) I remember the first time I heard someone say, “You’re not bored — you’re boring.” I laughed out loud. Then I paused. Because, damn… it’s true. Boredom isn’t a lack of things to do — it’s a mindset. We talk endlessly about positive mindsets: abundance, gratitude, growth. But what about the sneaky ones? The low-grade negative mindsets that creep into our
Alejandra
Jul 143 min read


Can You Ever Really Heal From The Past?
My 16th Birthday. Have you ever heard a song you hadn’t listened to in decades—and suddenly found yourself awash in memory, emotion, and...
Alejandra
May 314 min read


A "Reel" Lesson in Imperfection
I set out to make a warm and welcoming first post of 2025. I had everything ready; script, background, outfit, lighting, camera, and action! When I hit record, I’m not sure what came over me, I was not able to keep a straight face. It was one imperfect take after another and another. At first, I cringed. This wasn’t the polished content I’d planned. But then I started laughing. And kept laughing. It started becoming rather hilarious. And so, I kept the camera rolling. And th
Alejandra
Feb 22 min read


Apparently, I’ve reached my metaphorical death mark.
I’ve never really put too much stock into birthdays. I’ve always just gone about my merry way and have done one simple thing I really...
Alejandra
Sep 3, 20243 min read


Is Aging Out of Attractiveness Really A Thing?
I’ve just finished watching a 60 Minutes Australia segment on YouTube called “The Women Who Are Turning Grey Into The New Black.”...
Alejandra
Aug 4, 20245 min read


How a lover, a survey and my insecurities created The PHx
The PHx Origins: If you’ve ever wondered where this word - PHx comes from, I am here to tell you the story. Grab a coffee, take a seat...
Alejandra
Mar 13, 20244 min read


Liberate Yourself - Giggle Like a 12 Year Old Girl.
It was Amelia’s 12th birthday party yesterday. After some snacks, laser tag, dinner and cake, we came back to our house as the girls...
Alejandra
Jun 26, 20233 min read


Sensuality Rebirthed
“The Birth of Venus’ (c. 1486) (Photo via Wikimedia Commons) I find it coincidental that I decided to make my first blog post under the...
Alejandra
Apr 26, 20232 min read
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